Hi... Baby daddy an i broke up around Ja...

Asked by Anonymous on 01-04-2024 14:00:48
Question posted in the Family Law category relating to Limpopo

Hi... Baby daddy an i broke up  around January we have 2 year old baby and had an agreement that he won't introduce the baby to his girlfriend and if i happen to have a partner i wont until she's 5 or 6 for obvious reasons abuse in the hands of stepparent

 So he went on and introduced her without my knowledge and i learnt that from his sister wen i asked him he said she is the mother of her child and they are getting married and i am paying for the chil5 as well

So take u back to wen i gave birth

She's premature and he's paying hospital bill and i have been taking care of both of them baby daddy n the kid.. Use to buy groceries and clothe for him... I'm tje one who do almost every thing for the child. Wen he buys baby's food he only buy small tin of formula and nappies that can't even last for two weeks wen i told him that is finished he responds by saying are we eating the nappies nah.. December i asked him to buy baby clothe he didn't but i did nw i told him winter is approaching layby winter clothes for the baby he was like i will buy cash for him to go buy one jacket an an oversized jean... 

Another thing is wen we tell him that the baby is sick he doesn't come or call to check if he is oky or not so not so long he wanted to take the baby to town n he was told that the baby is sick and he got angry saying he is talking me to court and all that.. 

He actually have to kids one not mine but he pays school fee close to 3.4 monthly and fails to pay 300 for preschool 

If you would like to view the entire answer, you will need to either login or register a FREE account.


DISCLAIMER: Advice or answers from Lawyers on South African Legal Advice are not substitutes for the proper advice of an Lawyer. South African Legal Advice is a public forum and questions and responses are not private or confidential or protected by the attorney-client privilege. The Lawyer who assists with your question is not your Lawyer, and the response above is not to be considered to be legal advice. You should not read this response to propose specific action or address specific circumstances, but only to give you a sense of general principles of law that might affect the situation you describe. Application of these general principles to particular circumstances must be done by a lawyer who has spoken with you in confidence, learned all relevant information, and explored various options. Before acting on these general principles, you should hire a lawyer licensed to practice law in the jurisdiction to which your question pertains. The responses above are from individual Lawyers, not South African Legal Advice. The site and services are provided “as is”. This site is not for emergency questions which should be directed immediately by telephone or in-person to qualified professionals. Please carefully read the Terms of Service.