Good night, I would like to know about t...

Asked by SeanA on 01-04-2021 00:27:56
Question posted in the General Law category relating to Gauteng

Good night, I would like to know about that I have a problem with my girlfriend. We are in a relationship from last year she works as sales person not earning enough money why I am mentioning that because our relationship started as she needed for money and I helped her and then it's carry on even though she got the salary every month but she was always broke and I was always there to help her giving cash and depositing money whenever she asked. Bought a phone for her but she started changing and we started to have fights like arguing and then our attitude made sometimes things worse and we started to say each other it's done we can settle down everything(she used to say she will return everything and I used to ask her return everything back) and get apart coz I always  have trust issues with her but she always knows my soft spot and I was blinded in love with  her that's what made me overlook her mistakes  and lies, we carry on our relationship but the way she wanted, secret relationship we spending time together in hotels but she always needed money and keep hiding relationship and we have fights all along in those past months she knows that I am in love with her that's why she has been playing with me and making me fool still I want to be with her but on Sunday we met actually we had a fight so I told her I am done but she made me to do what she wanted and I agreed to borrow her iphone. At the lodge I gave her phone where she spent 2 to 3 hours and the driver she went home he call me after two days as a  police officer and said her sister complained about me that I am the reason she is not happy and she is losing weight bla bla so I should stay away from her and then she fight over nothing and she is not talking to me and doesn't want to return phone or anything even though I said just return the phone only but she is creating drama for nothing now I am scared because I found out she played that drama for phone, I called the driver and he threatened me but I found out that he is the driver I called from bolt to who picked her don't know how they know each other.nom I don't know what to do but don't want trouble please I am looking forward 

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